Chitsu
" Every toxic relationship has a combination of minuses ( negatives) and pluses ( positives).
To become the more important partner, to get more attention , the one who keeps burning herself and the one who watering , to become the most essential savior for partner.
These two people are drawn each other with a strong toxic allure. Their diseases are the same. Usually , their parents have a perception like that .
We can say that it is following traditions.
Their joyful relationship is based on opportunities without limits or boundaries . But these two people can't afford to accomplish what they really need.
There is only selfish love between the one who is overly judgemental and the one who is overly submissive .It is lacking authentic love already.
The victim creates troubles again and again to get attention and love she wants. Even the savior couldn't complete saving.In fact, they really won't take care of problems.
On the other hand , he did it because he believed that only when the great savior comes, she would love him. But both these twos are obviously selfish people.It is just filled with love that doesn't exist and is as hot as fire.
It's not good using each other for temporary peace of mind.But when they saw a couple whose relationship was built on healthy love , they assumed that they were bored.
In every situation , there must be boundaries and discipline , to value and stand up for each other.
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